Showing posts with label alchemy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label alchemy. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Is there Sex after Marriage?

Is there Sex after Marriage?
Gasp, for many,
not much

alas

Many start a relationship
and it's yummy hot dog

and then they start realizing the other isn't
perfect

and then they get in a stupid power struggle to
"fix"
the other

and they sometimes never get out
or
go numb
or have an affair

but in there somewhere
they
forget to
enjoy sex
with their partner

this is a shame,

sex and
talk
are what they need

sex
and talk
and mindfulness
are what I teach

along with movement that awakens the brain
and some coaching ideas about combining the
masculine to have goals
and
the feminine to have fun along the way
and
the gumption to say your desires and
live toward them

couples is the place
where we can get the most bang for
the buck
of talking through our
shit

and having sex
even when we don't "want to"

how to do that?
come hire me

first session: a free exploratory

good
yes
good

yewo

Friday, March 29, 2013

don't think, realize

if you think it can't get any better,
it can

if yu think it can't get any worse,
it can

if you think it's never going to change,
it will

if you think it can't get better and worse
at the same f....ing time
it can

oh, well

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

The laws of OMing/ Awakened Sex




 They are 180 degrees different from the laws of production



1. State of yearning. Reaching. Anticipation. This is your flour, butter, and sugar to Orgasm. That is the power behind your Orgasm.



2. Break rules. You want to discover what your personal rules are and break them. In Orgasm, it's hot because you say, "ugh. I would never do that." And then you are doing that. All of these deeper desires can be beautiful and turned on.



3. Ambivalence. The hottest is sex is when you are like, "uh. No. I don't have time. Oh it would be so good. Uh no. I can't..." When you have that kind of friction, your desire breaks through and when your desire breaks through, the best orgasm happens.



4. Power. You want to play with power because that's where most of the charge is in the world. You want to increase the power of Orgasm because it breaks through the sound barrier of all the merry-go-round thoughts in your mind.



What is OMing?

A partner practice, Orgasmic Meditation, 15 minutes, non reciprocal, focused on the present and the eruptive discoveries of the Female Orgasm that develops when her clitoris is stroked for this timed amount. 

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