Showing posts with label beyond the story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label beyond the story. Show all posts

Friday, May 30, 2014

what is failure, if we leave the fear and "story" out of it



things don't "go our way" sometimes

have you noticed?

we can either get lost in the story of "poor me, it's so hard"
or the "I'm a failure"
or "X is to blame"

all the bullshit, you know 'em

the hooks into "life sucks/ is too hard/ i'm jinxed" blah blah.



or we can do the work on
our inner critic's stories,
find out what's left

( who we really are)
after the four questions
and the turn around ( see the work, the work of Byron Katie
and

then play:

what actually happened?
What options do we have for the future?

can we find at least three?

can we find at least three that we'll enjoy trying?

and
while we need a little recharge,
can we take something simple,
like turning our head, and find
three or more ways
to do that?

brains love to learn
the new is the food of the now


movement with attention is
the quickest way
to wake up learning
and loving
the new
in our brains and beings

so,
hey,
move three ways

smile

look up at the sky
feel your feet on the ground
feel the life is you now

and then, write the three options
or four

and write how you want to feel
in those options

and do
something
a little bit

anything

good






Thursday, March 28, 2013

go ahead and die, just don't forget to go to the funeral

 
dying is under-rated

life on its own
terms
is perfect

and we almost never take it
that
way

which means we are dead
anyway

why not be there for the death
of seeing that
of tasting that
false grabbing to what's not really there
what's not really yours
what's not really true

the death of the story

what's left

go ahead and die,
and see,
be there to see
be there to taste
be there to gnash and smash and bash
until you are all the way
there

then
don't go to heaven
don't transcend

descend
come back for the funeral
stick around

what's next?

ah
what's next now?

and now?

and now?


good