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Thursday, March 26, 2009
How "the method" Works, Part One: Teamwork, part one
WHAT IT IS ABOUT, THIS NEUROLOGICAL UPGRADING/ FELDENKRAIS/ ANAT BANIEL METHOD WORK: ONE, HIP BONE CONNECTS TO THIGH BONE, THIGH BONE CONNECTS TO SHIN BONE
OR
TEAMWORK.
How many on the team? How many are coming to the party?
A party of one: not a real party.
A soccer or baseball team of one or two, again, not so great.
And one way of seeing this work is to think of it as reminding the various parts of us that they aren’t in this moving and living thing on their own.
Let’s explore this example.
Sit at a table or desk.
Put your right hand on the table and slowly move it out and away from you, thinking just of your hand. Go out and back slowly, just paying attention to the feel and sense of this.
Now rest.
Now, do the same back and forth movement, and think of your elbow and your hand moving forward and back.
Rest.
Now, think of shoulder and elbow and hand. Go slowly and try to notice as much as you can and make the movement slightly new and interesting to you.
Rest.
Now use the other hand to discover and feel where your right shoulder blade is. See if you can feel the top, the edges, the bottom. With your left hand still behind you and on the bottom of your shoulder blade if you can do this comfortably (or have someone else touch there lightly), move your hand and arm forward and back, feeling the involvement of your shoulder blade.
Go very slowly, and try to sense the movement, no matter how small in the shoulder blade.
Rest.
Now do the same movement, but with your left hand on the ribs underneath the shoulder blade. See if you can feel some movement in them as the hand and arm and shoulder and shoulder blade come forward and back.
Rest. In all the rests, feel the difference right arm to left, and the greater awareness of that whole side of your body. Notice differences in your breathing and other areas in your right side.
Now. Leaving the hand alone, just move your right shoulder blade and ribs forward and back. And then go back to moving the hand and arm, the whole teams.
Rest.
Now, leaving all the arm stuff alone, think about moving the right side of your pelvis forward, as if you are rotating your belly bottom to the left. Perhaps moving your right knee forward will get this going. Go slowly forward with your right hip, and then back, and feel perhaps what happens in your spine and ribs.
Rest, noticing as above.
Now, move hand, elbow, shoulder, shoulder blade, ribs, spine and right side of the pelvis in one cooperative movement, forward and back. See if the movement is clearer and easier and fuller with the “whole team” taking part.
Now let’s expand the party to include two people, to do this exploration with another person, or a special needs child. Have them sitting at a table or desk, and very easily move their hand forward and back along the desk or table.
Now, very very gently have your hand underneath their shoulder blade and more following along than guiding, and the other hand on their elbow, help the shoulder blade and the hand feel as if the are part of the “same team” of moving the hand forward and back.
Rest.
Now, with one hand on their elbow, and one very very lightly on the ribs under the shoulder blade, again, more just going along for the ride, help them feel the ribs and shoulder blade and elbow as all part of one “team” moving the hand forward and back.
Don’t push.
Don’t demand.
Just explore and help them explore how their team works together at this moment in their lives. The better this feels for them, and you, the more the learning and ease-ing and increasing of awareness and ease and skill.
There is nothing to do “right.”
There are tons of little details and sensations to learn and explore, for both the people in this dance.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Strength out of gyms and into Life
check the links before,
people knowing how fitness
can be built in real ways,
all that's missing is working with
pick
axe
shovel
hoe
scythe
sledge hammer
wrecking bar
and other fun stuff:
real work, too for real strength
Here's the links:
Man in Nature, swim run jump happy fitness
another man in woods, getting cool and strong
And one more link
the article in Men's Health
(a really weird/ interesting sociological/ psychological document)
that started it all off:
Fitness in the Wild
Ciao,
Chris
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
flexible hearts
non grudge holder
a few weeks back
I did one of those things I
do every once in a while
which is to say,
I send out some communication,
this time an email,
this presents me in the "I am right" mode
which as always,
has the unfortunate, "you are wrong" mode
tagging along
so,
I made a mistake.
I realized it.
I felt bad.
I apologized.
And the other side didn't
go
for anything but
unforgiveness.
So:
that's their business.
Wasn't so terrible what I
did,
just a bit insensitive,
and now they want to hang
on
hang
on.
Well
that's their life.
If I go into "I'm right, they're wrong"
they should forgive,
I'm right back where I started.
But, one thing,
that I've come to realize,
is that any areas in my life,
where I'm holding onto a grudge
or a demand
that the other person
'shape up'/ change/ see things my way
and so on
is a place of
mental and emotional inflexibility
that I have to/ get to work on.
And, as in our bodies, so
in our minds and hearts,
when we go past (when I go past)
the inflexible to the flexible....
it/ I feel so much better.
Good.
Making the inflexible flexible
Making the flexible varied
Making the varied delightful
Labels:
change,
cultivate flexibility,
waking up
Monday, March 16, 2009
Special Needs Children and Learning Challenges
Update from a posting of October 17, 2006:
Sometimes children need help in their learning.
They may have been born with a neurological issue,
such as cerebral palsy or a stroke, or brachial plexus.
There can be complications in utero or at birth.
Hospital procedures can go awry.
All sorts of traumas can occur.
For these neurological issues,
as well as children with "ordinary" learning challenges
(as in reading and math and social adjustment and co-ordination)
the FELDENKRAIS METHOD,
(invented by Israeli physicist, judo master and child development expert, Moshe Feldenkrais, 1904-1984)
and even more especially the method as refined
in the Anat Baniel Method for Children,
(see Overview, Anat Baniel Method for Children)
is the supreme way on this Earth of helping these children.
This is because in these methods,
we recreate the natural pathways of learning
and wake up the brain to its possibilities of
change and learning and improvement
in a way that no amount of physical therapy or surgery ever can do.
Think of a child learning to crawl.
She or he sees no one crawling,
gets no crawling lessons,
isn't pressured to learn,
doesn't even think about learning to crawl.
He or she just moves this way and that
and learns hundreds of ways to understand
and move
and sense
and coordinate themselves.
A huge amount of learning
involves pushing down
and raising this and that
part of themselves against
the ongoing pull of
GRAVITY.
And then one day,
wanting to get across the room
or yard
easier,
the child "miraculously" pulls together the twenty things
they need
and crawl.
This is organic learning.
This is learning based on function.
This is learning where the brain, the body,
discovery, intention, and action all
merge to create an
upgraded human being.
This is why this method is so amazingly effective.
For a summary
and continued explanation
see Amazing One on One Lessons
You might be excited to
experience the amazing videos
of ANAT BANIEL
working with three children.
Watching the progress of these
three children over a period of time
you can see the almost miraculous changes.
Try this:
Grace, Isabel and Carter Transform and Heal.
This work, for a child with learning difficulties,
is the fresh drink they have been desperate for all their lives.
They are not pushed, or prodded, or force to "do it right."
They are not "fixed," or moved in ungentle ways.
They are given small pieces of real and immediately felt learning
(inner and organic "learning,"
not the imposed kind that gives "learning" a bad sound to many children, and adults)
and they begin to renew and change almost before our eyes.
For lessons,
rates,
a free initial phone consultation,
contact
Chris Elms
at 707-721-6835
They may have been born with a neurological issue,
such as cerebral palsy or a stroke, or brachial plexus.
There can be complications in utero or at birth.
Hospital procedures can go awry.
All sorts of traumas can occur.
For these neurological issues,
as well as children with "ordinary" learning challenges
(as in reading and math and social adjustment and co-ordination)
the FELDENKRAIS METHOD,
(invented by Israeli physicist, judo master and child development expert, Moshe Feldenkrais, 1904-1984)
and even more especially the method as refined
in the Anat Baniel Method for Children,
(see Overview, Anat Baniel Method for Children)
is the supreme way on this Earth of helping these children.
This is because in these methods,
we recreate the natural pathways of learning
and wake up the brain to its possibilities of
change and learning and improvement
in a way that no amount of physical therapy or surgery ever can do.
Think of a child learning to crawl.
She or he sees no one crawling,
gets no crawling lessons,
isn't pressured to learn,
doesn't even think about learning to crawl.
He or she just moves this way and that
and learns hundreds of ways to understand
and move
and sense
and coordinate themselves.
A huge amount of learning
involves pushing down
and raising this and that
part of themselves against
the ongoing pull of
GRAVITY.
And then one day,
wanting to get across the room
or yard
easier,
the child "miraculously" pulls together the twenty things
they need
and crawl.
This is organic learning.
This is learning based on function.
This is learning where the brain, the body,
discovery, intention, and action all
merge to create an
upgraded human being.
This is why this method is so amazingly effective.
For a summary
and continued explanation
see Amazing One on One Lessons
You might be excited to
experience the amazing videos
of ANAT BANIEL
working with three children.
Watching the progress of these
three children over a period of time
you can see the almost miraculous changes.
Try this:
This work, for a child with learning difficulties,
is the fresh drink they have been desperate for all their lives.
They are not pushed, or prodded, or force to "do it right."
They are not "fixed," or moved in ungentle ways.
They are given small pieces of real and immediately felt learning
(inner and organic "learning,"
not the imposed kind that gives "learning" a bad sound to many children, and adults)
and they begin to renew and change almost before our eyes.
For lessons,
rates,
a free initial phone consultation,
contact
Chris Elms
at 707-721-6835
Friday, March 13, 2009
gravity, learning, dance, life, fun, yes
in the feldie
work
the better we understand
our relationship
to gravity
the better we can function
this cat
has mastered
a four legged way
of relating to gravity:
fun
and here's someone who learned
it as art
not necessity,
note the differences
Labels:
gravity,
gravity as teacher,
loving life,
movement is life
Tuesday, March 03, 2009
The Feldenkrais Method®
right now,
for those of us who are practitioners
and can stand it,
on
feldyforum,
there is a ridiculous
tempest in a teacup
battle raging:
Is there a Feldenkrais Method?
Is there anything that Feldenkrais practitioners
find in common?
Are we burdened with the name Feldenkrais,
or given an anchor that keeps us on track?
And so on.
first off,
third question:
I love describing the method
as coming from someone
way good at judo
a real discover and experiment scientist
a physicist interesting in the engineering miracle of the human body
a student of learning fascinated with how babies organically learn so much
so fast
The three PhD bigshots
who never ask questions
and always answer have weighed in:
nah, no method,
no common set of practices.
La, la.
So be it.
Their opinion and two bucks will get them
a bus ride across town.
My opinion and two bucks with get
me
a bus ride across town.
And, here's a kicker:
if you really want to remember what the
Feldenkrais Method is,
delve into the
Anat Baniel Method.
A book is coming out soon;
MOVE INTO LIFE,
by Anat Baniel,
making very clear
the
nine essentials of
vitality and learning:
1. movement with attention
2. slow ( the brain can't learn new if it's going at normal speed)
3. turn on the learning switch
4. subtlety
5. flexible relationship to goals
6. variation
7. imagination and dreams
8. enthusiasm
9. awareness
we could also posit these as fundamentals of the Feldenkrais Method:
we are two legged beings
we live in gravity
we were engineered for maximum mobility
we have a rib cage that gets in the way of things
we have small feet with many toes
we have a pelvis around which big muscles have most power
we have a spine composed of many vertebrae,
this spine holds up our head and shoulders and arms
good use of the spine seems pretty useful
learning based on function
has a lot more bang per buck
that learning based on structure
or this is right
or how to use the muscles
learning based on action
in the real world
leads to a better life in the real world
almost anything can be learned
better
if broken down into smaller chunks
and
even better if this chunks shake
up established patterns
and orientations
reversible motion is good motion
motion that comes from or increases our lengthen is a good thing
doing things one or two ways is stucks-ville
real learning is fun
sensing ourselves
--brings us into reality
--creates conditions for amazing change
--gives us back the real world underneath all the words
more could be said,
but that word statement kind
of gives me the stop now
idea
ciao
chris
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