Movement for back, hips, neck and brain---cat and cow

CAT AND COW
IN SITTING ON A CHAIR
Come to the front of the chair
Both feet on the floor

CAT:
Back is rounded
by
Pulling stomach in
Rolling back on your pelvis
Lowering your sternum
Letting your head slump down

COW
Back is arched
by
Pushing stomach forward
(extra credit, figure out how to do this on the outbreath)
Rolling forward on your pelvis
Raising your sternum
Letting your nose lift up toward the sky (Do not cram your neck way back)


NORMAL DEAL
In sitting
alternate cat and cow

slowly
taking a few turns to mainly notice the pelvis
a few turns
to mainly notice the ribs and arch/ round of the spine
and
a few turns
feeling your head's involvement in this
and
then
a few turns feeling it all together

VARIATION ONE

In this variation your head does the opposite as the "normal" version

So
VARIATION ONE -- CAT
All is the same except for the head:
Back Rounded
by
Belly in
Pelvis rolled back
Sternum down
and
Head goes UP this time

Two ways to notice this:
The head goes back as the back goes back
and
Your head is rotating the same way your pelvis is

VARIATION ONE -- COW
All is the same except for the head
Back Arched
by
Belly forward
Pelvis rolling forward
Sternum up
and
Your HEAD goes DOWN this time

as before;
Head and belly going forward
and
Your head is rotating the same way your pelvis is

LINK THESE UP:
AND
go slowly
and pay attention
and enjoy the movement
and find something new and delicious
and interesting
each time you do the movement

Go LESS than your full range
Use LESS force
Use MORE attention, ease and pleasure

Enjoy


CAT AND COW AS THEY DO IT IN YOGA

ON YOUR HANDS AND KNEES

NORMAL CAT
Back arched up toward the ceiling
as
Pelvis tucks under
Belly tucks in
Head lowers toward the pelvis
And your sternum moves as if down into your belly

NORMAL COW
Back and ribs come toward the floor
as
Your pelvis rotates so your butt is moving toward the back of your head
The back of your head , as you nose lifts, is moving toward your butt
Your sternum is expanding and coming as if up toward your neck

CAT and COW in Yoga:
Go back and forth between these two

VARIATION TWO
Put your weight on your left hand and knee
Have your right knee free

As you do cat,
Bring your right knee toward your nose

As you do cow
Bring your right foot back and up toward the ceiling

Alternate these two


VARIATION ONE IN THE YOGA VERSION

HANDS AND KNEES VARIATION ONE,      CAT
Your back is up toward the ceiling,
Rounded we call it, though blah blah, it could seem an arch
Think of rounding forward in standing or sitting,
This is rounding, just go along with it

Your back is toward the ceiling
Your pelvis is tucked under , tailbone tucked under, as if toward your head
Your belly is pulled in and up toward the ceiling
and
Your head is looking up toward the ceiling/ sky also

as before:
the back and the head are both toward the sky
and
the pelvis and the head are rotating the same direction

HANDS AND KNEES VARIATION ONE,    COW
Your back is arched
Meaning ribs are pushed "forward" if forward is the way your chest points
or
Ribs and belly are pushed toward the floor
and your sternum lifts a bit toward your neck
and
Your pelvis rotates as if the point your butt toward your head
and
Your head this time is
Going down toward the floor

as before:
The ribs and mid section is toward the floor and so is your head
and
Your pelvis and your head are rotating in the same direction

Combine these two
Go slowly
Go slower
Stop a lot

Feel it
feel it
feel it

as sensation

it's very relaxing
and
brain expanding

as are
all of these lessons

cheers
Chris

The Heart Knows What the Mind has Forgotten, ( Love is, Love Ain't 8)

Love is and Love Ain’t, part 8

Is there anything left to say on this topic?

Yes.

Sometimes, if you just sit across the table from someone, with whom you think there is a big deal disagreement.

And you just look into each other’s eyes.

And you feel your heart.

And you feel them feeling their heart.

And your heart knows something your mind thought was all wrong.

And you let the words go.

And you both

soak in what you’ve forgotten, 

that bond, that connection.

And wallah…. the love you thought was gone, wasn’t.

This delightful unfolding happened for me and a supposedly lost lover last night.

After two months of either blackout, 

or picking away, 

or squabbling on text and email, 

we were both certain we’d come together 

for the showdown at OKAY coral,

And

then together, we laughed

 and our hearts went pitter patter, and there we were again:

crazy with pleasure in each others’ company.

Oh, well.

Worst things have happened to good people.

Yes.

Movement Lesson, for back and neck, in bed, and easy

MOVEMENT ONE: ON THE BACK

1.   Lie on your back, with legs comfortable, and head slightly supported so your neck is a continuation of your spine

Rotate your feet, right and left.
Gently. Easily. Many times.
Feeling this in many places: your ankles, your legs, your hip joints, your pelvis, your spine
Feel this as pleasure, ease, awareness and discovery

Rest
In all rests, scan your body for ease, pleasure and differences from earlier.

2. Bring your left arm across your face so that the crook of your left arm is over your forehead>
Slowly move the left arm right and left so that your head moves left and right, so that your nose rotates left to right.
Feel this as ease and pleasure, and notice as much of yourself as you can.

Do this many times, each time with a slightly different awareness focus.

Rest.

3. Have the left arm as in 2. And move your feet and arm

a. Many times with the head and the feet going the same direction>

Rest

b. Many times with the head and feet going in opposite directions>

Rest

4. Do all the above in 3.b, with the eyes going opposite your head and the same direction as the feet.

Breath . Notice. Enjoy.
Many times.

Rest. Get up and walk around as part of your rest.
And, JUST ENJOY being in your body.
This can be the end of a mini lesson, or, add in the next

5. As much as you wish, do all the above with the right arm.

Remember: no moves that are painful.
less is more.

Good.

Love is, Love Ain't

Love is love
is love

is loving what is
in front of you

an imperfect person

hurray!
just like us
imperfect

a beautiful person
hurray! hurray
just like us
beautiful

confused?
just like us

happy, unhappy, in love with you, not in love with you
hurray
just like us

they are there
aren't they
all those other pieces of God
to remind us
how to love

love what?
everything

and love ain't:

you know what it is
when someone wants you to shape up
when
someone tells you you are wrong
when
someone is conditional,
they will love you, if.....

love ain't conditional

that's a great start

all you have to do
and you can do this looking in a mirror:

is to see what's in front of you

listen to the conditions,
drop them,
and love what's left

easy
hard
impossible

who knows

without this skill,
we are in a sinking boat, full of Shakespeare quotes
and not able to swim

alas, a messy end

cheers on a cold, post snowy Friday in Austin,
Chris

Back, toes, spine, pelvis, neck and nose: an easy wake up play

MOVEMENT ONE: ON THE BACK

1.   Lie on your back, with legs comfortable, and head slightly supported so your neck is a continuation of your spine

Rotate your feet, right and left.
Gently. Easily. Many times.
Feeling this in many places: your ankles, your legs, your hip joints, your pelvis, your spine
Feel this as pleasure, ease, awareness and discovery

Rest
In all rests, scan your body for ease, pleasure and differences from earlier.

2. Bring your left arm across your face so that the crook of your left arm is over your forehead>
Slowly move the left arm right and left so that your head moves left and right, so that your nose rotates left to right.
Feel this as ease and pleasure, and notice as much of yourself as you can.

Do this many times, each time with a slightly different awareness focus.

Rest.

3. Have the left arm as in 2. And move your feet and arm

a. Many times with the head and the feet going the same direction>

Rest

b. Many times with the head and feet going in opposite directions>

Rest

4. Do all the above in 3.b, with the eyes going opposite your head and the same direction as the feet.

Breath . Notice. Enjoy.
Many times.

Rest. Get up and walk around as part of your rest.
And, JUST ENJOY being in your body.
This can be the end of a mini lesson, or, add in the next

5. As much as you wish, do all the above with the right arm.

Remember: no moves that are painful.
less is more.

Good.

Side lying, flexion and extension, all in the same game

Lie on your right side, Have a pillow under your head

and a small pillow between your knees.

Have your knees pointing forward

which is the direction your chest is pointing

take it easy

let your left arm be straight out from your shoulder

on the floor

1. Practice flexion,

which is the rounding of your back,

by the contracting of your stomach muscles

Bring your stomach in

and your left elbow down toward

your left knee

which comes up toward it

then come back to the starting position

do this many times

not far

not trying to reach the knee with the elbow

rest

2. Practice flexion with your knee moving forward

so that you bring your knee forward

with your knee coming up toward your face

as it moves forward away from your chest

as you round your back

and pull your stomach in

and push your middle back backward

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

Practice flexion with your arm moving forward

and slightly down

forward and down

stomach in

back rounding

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

3 Do both together

Knee forward and a bit up

Hand forward and a bit down

stomach in

back rounding

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

4. Extension

(always lengthens the body)

As per yesterday,

Move your hand forward and up

arch your back

and pushing out your belly

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

And as per two days ago

bring the knee forward and down a bit

push the belly out

and arch the back

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

5. Combine these two movements

so the arch of your back is

sending your hand forward and up

and your knee

forward and down

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

6. Let's go backward, just in extension

Bring your left shoulder back and up a bit

pushing out your belly

and arching your back

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

Now, bring your left hip back and down a bit

pushing out your belly 

and arching your back

and then come back

many times

aware

ease

pleasure

rest

7. Now, a fun project,

both ways are going to be in extension

Move your hand forward and up

push your belly out

and bring your hip back and down

(those are the same, back arching and belly coming forward)arching your back

return to neutral

and then go into extension

and keep going so that 

your shoulder comes back and up

as your belly pushes out

and your knee goes down and forward

as your back arches 

go back and forth,

arching each way

and then relaxing in neutral

and then arching again as the shoulder 

and hip

move in opposite directions

go slowly

if you don't "get it"

go slower

and play around with some variation

you feel in your body

any movement with awareness

is

good

you are 

good

life is good

Love is, Love Ain't, 6

Love is
Patient

Love is
Kind

Love is
Happy in Truth

okay, that's a good start. From Corinthians, which we printed up a couple of days ago.

Patient:
The other person doesn't have to be better
Later
and then you can love

They are what they are
and maybe better would be nice
and the improvement can be loved
and the now and unimproved state
can be loved
and we can be patient along the way

Kind
Kin
As if a good family, kind people
who care about you
and will look after your happiness
when you are down
and will root for your becoming what you want
to become
and
will be curious and supportive about
how
you are
right now

And Happy in Truth:
"I turn myself into angry when you do...."
The truth of our emotions with other people.

Looking at the illusions of
"You should change
so I can be happy"

Which is the root of almost all interpersonal suffering

And the easy question:
Is it true?

And another question:
Without my words about this situation,
what is the truth of it?

It's straightforward in a crazy way.


Love is...
Action toward another
that is
Patient
Kind
and
Leaving them alone while we look for the truth in
ourselves


And
Love Ain't.


In a hurry
to fix the other

Love ain't
unkind
and insensitive and critical
all those sort of things


Love Ain't
the un truth
of blaming other people for how we feel


And Love Ain't a feeling,
though the feeling of wanting to be near and close to another,
but any of those feelings that don't translate into actions
that benefit the other and the WE that can come from love

good

More Moving, on the Side, Shoulder, Hip, Brain

Redo, if you have time, yesterday's lesson
and then add this on

Lying on your right side,
a bed
a firm floor with a blanket or several layers of yoga mat on it
a lawn

Today
have your left knee on top of your right knee
either put your right hand
or a cushion of some sort between the knees to ease the movement of the top knee

Have your left arm straight forward from your head on the ground/ floor ( we'll call it floor from now on)

1. Move your left arm slowly forward
and as per yesterday,
forward is the direction your chest is pointing

have the shoulder, your shoulder, move slowly forward and back to neutral
feeling this as a rolling in the top part of your spine
go slowly
and enjoy feeling each vertebra as it gets involved

rest

1.b.
Move the left arm forward and a bit down,
say a 45 degree angle
and as you do this
pull in your stomach muscles
and round your back a bit
then return to neutral

do this a number of times

rest

1.c.
Move your left arm forward and up a bit,
again, about 45 degrees,
and
as you move it forward and up,
arch your back
let your back seem to be pushing your arm
away
( it is),
feel the sternum lifting as you do this

return slowly and with awareness to neutral
and then do this many times

rest on your back and notice differences
side to side

return to your right side after a pleasant rest

2. Move your left leg ,
just a little bit,
straight ahead,
as if tipping off the right knee
and then come back

feel this as pure rotation
and feel the vertebrae move one by one

do this many times

rest

2.b.
Move your knee back and down
not a whole lot
but enough to feel how this works
well with push the belly forward
and arching your back

come back to neutral
go
very
slowly
and feel the back hip knee connection

back and forth,
from no arch and the knee on top of the other,
to arch and the knee back and down

rest

2.c.
Move your knee back and up a bit,
as if you were curling in
and bringing your knee toward your chin
and with this pull in your belly and round your back  a little
so the knee is coming back with a feeling of
curling up in the middle

rest on your back
enjoy the sensations
notice the differences:
beginning to now
right and left sides

stay here awhile,
and then
back to your right side

3.
arching

in extension,
in arching,

move your arm up and forward
while your arch your back
and lift your sternum
and
while you
bring your knee back and down a bit

as if you could keep going into a yoga like thing
with the arm toward up and the leg coming behind you

rest

4
rounding,
belly in

rounding,
flexion

this time
bring your arm down and forward
and your belly in
and bring your knee back and down

( the knee back and down is quite odd
go slowly
and figure it out

go very small
and have everything rotating around your movement being led
by your belly coming in

rest

5. Finish off with extension again
it's more natural

arm forward and up
back arched
belly forward
knees back and down

and a general feeling of lengthening

rest

and enjoy

Love is, Love Ain't, 5: The Prophet

Kahlil Gibran on Love 

When love beckons to you, follow her,

Though her ways are hard and steep.

And when her wings enfold you yield to her,

Though the sword hidden among her pinions may wound you.

And when she speaks to you believe in her,

Though her voice may shatter your dreams

as the north wind lays waste the garden. 

For even as love crowns you so shall she crucify you.
Even as she is for your growth
so is she for your pruning.

Even as she ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,

So shall she descend to your roots
and shake them in their clinging to the earth. 

Like sheaves of corn she gathers you unto herself.

She threshes you to make you naked.

She sifts you to free you from your husks.

She grinds you to whiteness.

She kneads you until you are pliant;

And then she assigns you to her sacred fire,
that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast. 

All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart. 

But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,

Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,

Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.

Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.

Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;

For love is sufficient unto love. 

When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God."

And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. 

Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.

But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:

To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.

To know the pain of too much tenderness.

To be wounded by your own understanding of love;

And to bleed willingly and joyfully.

To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;

To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;

To return home at eventide with gratitude;

And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.


.......
Same as Paul in Cornthians,
Love is tough
stuff

go through the fire
and you'll be real

don't and you'll be living a sorta kinda half life

or less

and
what is love
here:

Love is a threshing machine,
to cut off your head,
so your heart can be free

What is love ain't?
Easy

ha,
that's enough

Movement Joy, Hip and Shoulder, three

We've done this before,
and this is slightly "better"

Lie on your right side,
Use a pillow to keep your neck straight with your spine

Bring your left knee slightly in front of your right thigh
Bring your left hand to your sternum in the center of your chest

Be relaxed,
Breathe
Feel yourself in this shape

Rest many times during this

Now

1. Practice arching your back a little
which means:
belly forward
and pelvis rotating to the top of the pelvis goes forward
(forward = the direction your chest is facing)
and the the bottom of the pelvis ( your butt) comes back a little

and then bring the pelvis back.
Do this many times

Rest
in a way that breathing and sensing yourself
is a great joy

2
Do all movement as small as you wish
Much much less
and much slower
and much less force than you are used to

Round your back a number of times
This means
Pull the belly
in
and rotate your pelvis such that the top of your pelvis
( where is meets the spine) goes back with the belly
and
the bottom of your pelvis ( your butt and crotch) come forward
as if towards your nose

Do this many times,
from neutral to rounding and back to neutral

Rest for ease pleasure and enjoyment

3.
Do the arching of your back,
\as you bring your left knee forward
and then pull in your belly a bit to bring it back to neutral

it's as if you are pushing your knee forward with your back

go slow
really slowly

if there's any pain,
make the movement almost microscopic

it's about the brain noticing
differences

many times
with ease
pleasure
awareness

Rest

4
Do the arching of your back as you bring your left shoulder back
and then
simply release to bring everything back to neutral

no stain
all the pulling the shoulders back
is mainly nonsense,
let your back be carrying your shoulder back
easily
slowly
gently
pleasurably

many times
many

Rest

5
Combine the two:
Arch and bring the shoulder back as the left knee goes forward
and then
release back to neutral

many times

rest



EXTRA CREDIT
Do this in sitting

Sit in a chair
upright
most of the weight on the right side of your pelvis

Arch your back and bring your right shoulder back
many times

rest

Arch your back and bring your knee forward
many times
easy
slowly
less
pleasurably

rest

combine the two


EXTRA CREDIT, PART TWO

Do this on your back

Bring your left hip forward by arching the left side of your back
as you press your left
heel into the floor

Bring your left shoulder back with the same
heel pressing
back arching combo

Don't worry to get this right

if it feels good
it's right
good

Corinthians 13: Love is, Love Ain't, 4,

This might be the most famous love passage in the world,
at least the Bible reading English speaking world

1 Corinthians 13

New International Version (NIV)

13 If I speak in the tongues[ of men or of angels, 

but do not have love, 

I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 

2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge,

 and if I have a faith that can move mountains, 

but do not have love, 

I am nothing. 

3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,[b]

but do not have love, 

I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient, 

love is kind. 

It does not envy, 

it does not boast, 

it is not proud. 

5 It does not dishonor others, 

it is not self-seeking, 

it is not easily angered, 

it keeps no record of wrongs. 

6 Love does not delight in evil 

but rejoices with the truth. 

7 It always protects, always trusts, 

always hopes, 

always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. 

But where there are prophecies, they will cease; 

where there are tongues, they will be stilled; 

where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

  9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 

10 but when completeness comes, 

what is in part disappears. 

11 When I was a child, 

I talked like a child, 

I thought like a child, 

I reasoned like a child. 

When I became a man, 

I put the ways of childhood behind me.

  12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror;  ( this is the glass darkly one, I believe)

 then we shall see face to face. 

Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, 

even as I am fully known.

13 And now these three remain: 

faith,

 hope and 

love. 

But the greatest of these is love.

Well, that's a pretty good start

A few quibbles:
the ways of a child
can be selfish and petty,
but they also have this remarkable trait,
they meet someone
and instantly,
without background check
preliminary maneuvering, or judgment
they are instantly 'BEST FRIENDS."

That's something not worth putting away

But the me, me, me
give me , give me
of a child
yeah,
that's the death of love

But, let's go now to the juice:

No matter what you've got,
if you've got no love,
your life sucks

Okay.
That's out of the way

except what it says about what love is:

Love is
Core to a well lived and meaningful life

and What is love,
in this accounting:

Love is:
patient
kind
rejoices in truth

What Love Ain't fills a bigger list:
Not envious
Not boastful
Not proud
Doesn't dishonor others
Not easily angered
Not keeping records.


That one
can save many a relationship:
Stop the record keeping:

You done
such
and
such
and
such

to me

Or:
write them down,
and figure out a way to
love each and every one

This passage doesn't say that love
is forgiving
but
without forgiveness
and letting go

love is dead

and what is life
with letting go and forgiveness?

Life in the present.

And what is truth?
Life in the present

There are lots of ways to go from here

Good
We won't

In this present
Can you let go a couple of thoughts that are
holding you back
from loving Reality
exactly as it is

Now?

If so,
are you willing to let them go?

And if so,k
When?


Love is an action.

Play
there

play and play
playing in the fields of love,
where the child and the adult come
to fullness
yes
good

Love is... Love ain't 3

Love is waiting
Patience
Makes the pace of the other just right

What the ego/ you/ me me me
 one wants can
Wait

ah
Waiting

Waiting is such sneaky food
And

Love ain't hurrying open the
Budding flower
Of now

Everything is unfolding
Ain't necessary to tap our feet in
Hurry worry

Prod probe push shove


No
Patience is a surrender to reality

What does that mean?

Love says:
Wait and see

The other is
just where they are supposed
to be
in their evolution

as are you

you have some much in common

everything actually:

you are both imperfect
and both going to die

ah,
love is laughing and kissing into
that

what's left when the worry goes?

Love

Love is/ love ain't 2

Love is grooving on
The other person
And wondering who
that person really is?

And not knowing,
and not knowing more,
and delighting
in the partial discoveries
and delighting in the mysteries

and delighting in the wrong guesses

and listening and watching and waiting
and wondering
and listening some more


Love ain't
Knowing who this other is,
having it all figured out,
especially in the judgmental box
And trying to squeeze the other person into that
Box

Love is? Love ain't ?

What is love?

Being charmed by the junk your robot hates

What ain't love?

Wanting to control fix and eliminate the junk your robot gets tweaked by

Love
Control
Love
Control

We all gets to
Pick

All the time

Life is Yes

Yes terday is gone

Today is sort of here
And even that's a concept

What's now
As experience for you
Right
Now

Include spine arms legs eyes ears and breathing
If you want to

And this now
Can you be yes to it?

If so: welcome to love

the bright glory of now-- Austin on a warm night in January

Austin is kind of cheating
a big(ish) city
with all sorts of places to be small
and around friendly people
content to be doing whatever they are doing

Whole Foods downtown has at least 4 different areas
to sit around
and eat whatever you bought, or just meet and talk
or hook up to the Internet

and indoors
the lights are bright
and there's a parade of people
and who knows what's going
on
inside them
but

some are happy
and some are discovering something
new
about life
or
another
or
food
or
????

And to come here
with a simple awareness of how
big the world is
and how other people
are an endless gift

this feels good


what feels good to you?

happiness is a choice

happiness is a choice

it doesn't really matter (much)

what you are doing

if you've decided to be happy

so

decide to do what is really important to you

and do it in a way

that you decide is how you want to be

as you live your life

and..

that's enough isn't it?

Forgetting what's not important

You know,
a lot of suffering is here
in the wanting other people
to have different thoughts and opinions of us

Slavery really
wanting others to approve
when they can't

and why can't they
we all know...
they don't like themselves

or,
they have a control
thing
and you don't fit their
control scheme

other people
ah,
what a delightful playground for learning

cheers
chris

making out with life

you are walking down the street
lost in your thoughts,
next to a fence,
and
suddenly

on the other side of the fence,
a dog, a big dog, barks loud

god backwards
has let loose a wild loud sound
and your body shivers awake,
your eyes open wide,
your blood courses,
you see the fence you'd neglected to notice
and the sky
and the street
and you might even feel sensations
all the way down to your feet

god/ dog has awakened
you
back into life

that happens sometimes

and then, here's our life problem
no
life challenge
no
life opportunity
no
life thrill

how to turn everything into a chance
to wake up
like that
except without fear
but with a big grin
of delight?

how can we do that?
what do you think?
what do you feel?
What do you desire?

mindfulness and love

one of the straightforward characteristics
of
being mindful
is the ability to watch what's going on
in
emotions
or our body
or our gol darn thoughs
and just watch
without judgment

to be mindful of another person
is to see and hear and feel them,
as they are,
without judgment

Love and judgment don't mix
and
love as a feeling only goes so far
when we aren't getting our way
and feel stress

in stress we can be
mindful
or
mindless

mindless means we fall back on
programing
usually Ma and Pa

mindful means we watch our hurt or scared and angry
feelings
and thoughts
without judgment
and without believing
them

and hopeful communicate
about that

and then listen,
again,
without judgment to the other person's
stuff

listening
saying our truth
not judging

mindfulness and love
are necessary to each other
don't you think/ feel/ intuit?

some kind of anger, that allows the sun to shine in

you know,
we can get annoyed,
we can feel slighted,
we can be betrayed
and all that

and in the long run
so what

the short run, too,
if you want to be happy
in the present

and sometimes
it's just good to be angry
and
not take it so seriously

rant and rave,
but with a smile inside you, too
( you know you've done whatever misdeed
they've done, at
some time
or other)

write a furious letter
and really abuse the other
mercilessly
and then delete it

or at least don't send it

breathe
and be present
while you rant
and let the joy be there
too
on your inside
and it that joyful place in us that knows,
yes

now
I am alive

yes,
this is my anger having its little tantrum
yes
this is a fine batch of energy

stay happy
and let the anger play
and then get back to your work
or your love
or your real play

what are you here on earth
to do?

use the anger as energy
to go for that

yes

wake up, an ongoing meditation for 2014, all day, every day

ten fingers
ten toes
belly
eyes
ears
nose

that's it for the starter
all day,
each moment

meditation

the belly is about breathing,
and the nose, too

and what about the spine in between,
if you remember and sense that too, so much
the
better

and the ten toes,
down there at the bottom
as far from our thinking apparatus as
possible
and connected to the legs

if you can sense your entire legs
great

and if the legs and their anchor, the pelvis
remind you that you are in gravity
so
much
the
better

ten fingers at the ends of our hands
where are yours, right now?

and the eyes,
taking in light

where is the light coming from
right now
that is bouncing into your eyes

and ears:
sound,
day and night,
sound coming in

what is it

it's big this meditation
not as big as life
lots getting left out you can add
on

and
an all day
now reading this
later talking
walking
driving
reading

give it a try
if 2014 is the year for you
to
wake up

cheers
Chris