slow sex, slow life, slow talk.....wake up.........why not?

The world of OM is sometimes
viewed as the world of possibility that opens
when sex
plus
attention
in the moment

combine to create
......
lots and lots


let's make a short list,
to which you can add at your pleasure and leisure;

connection
orgasm
sensation
now-ing
clearing
stirring
more sensations
attention to sensation
fun
more stirring
more connection

anyway:

OM happens by slowing down
sex
from
"trying to get somewhere"
and
from
being mood and arousal based
( turn on does happen, guess that should go on
the list above)
and
from reciprocity
and
from performance
and
from having to end
at climax
or exhaustion
or ?????

the timer rings,
13 minutes,
downstrokes
15 minutes

stop

it's over

we've slowed out of life
to connect and have a sort
of sex

we've connected

and then,
the rest of that day?

how can talking be like an OM

connection and sensation
and now
based

and there is a cheap version
of messing with people to get their sensation
up
and then there is a version
of deeply sensing
oneself
while talking

that slows things down
a
lot

the words stopping being it

the other person is seen and heard and felt,
but we don't need a reaction out of them
to fire ourselves
up

hmmm

there could be more
to
this



yeah,
there is...............